It appears more people in the public eye know, love, or possibly are, transgendered folk. As a rule, I'm not a Hollywood follower. I rarely watch TV anymore, only go to the movies a few times a year and never watch the awards shows, but I do take note of magazine covers when I'm standing in line at the grocery store. Granted, the magazines at the grocery store are not scholarly or peer-reviewed, but there are some whose headlines I may consider true-ish.
Bruce Jenner's transition has been in the "gossip" papers for some time. While Jenner's look is certainly changing, far be it for me to assume that a transition it taking place, despite the appearance of it. Yet, when People magazine featured his story, I began to believe it might be true.
http://www.people.com/article/bruce-jenner-transition-whats-next
What I like about the article is that it attempts to educate in an appropriate fashion; the article explains what the term "transgender" means, to a fair enough degree. While most of us are sheep and tend to readily accept whatever famous people do as "normal,"in this instance, it is a good thing! Certainly, when Jenner's kin elect to broadcast the details of their personal lives on TV, they simultaneously become laughingstocks, and, to some, role models. I shudder to think that DJ would ever engage in some of the public ridiculousness that is being Kardashian, but…well, some people simply insist on engaging in idiocy. However, there are instances when publicity can help "normalize" others who are otherwise and inappropriately viewed as "abnormal," and are thus marginalized.
When celebrities use their status to inform, to educate, to foster equity and acceptance, not merely tolerance, they have used their privileged status well. Kudos to Brangelina for publicly sharing their support of their child who currently seems to be living as a young boy with XX chromosomes. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have shared her story of her battle with cancer in an effort to educate, but also to share their story of supporting John, their oldest biological child. I hesitate to refer to John's gender, while it may seem obvious, because until John's parents can share the gender identity John professes, far be it for me to suggest anything. Not my place. Nonetheless, the fact that John's birth certificate identified John as a natal female and Brangelina "permit" John to, one, be called John rather than the name they gave John, which was Shiloh, and further purchase clothing that John desires, rather than what society might dictate, all the while very much in the public eye, denotes their obvious love and acceptance of their child. Given societal propensities to accept as gospel that which comes from the rich, famous and beautiful, it seems the Pitt/Jolie family heads have made good use of their prominent positions, while I doubt that was their goal. Their goal was likely to simply be good parents to their kid.
http://www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/2014/12/20/brad-pitt-and-angelina-jolie-support-their-kid-wearing-suits
It's interesting that the two individuals I mention as being possibly transgender are of such disparate ages and both appear to be embracing their true selves, and in the public eye. I can only wonder at what it's like for Jenner as the "male" Jenner face and identity has been well-known in America for decades. So many of us thought that winning the decathlon would be Jenner's crowning victory, when actually, coming out may be. John's "male" name and style of dress seem to indicate John is already out of, and perhaps was never in, the closet. How very different experiences they are.
Truthfully, I'm thankful for those who share their stories in the public eye. It takes enormous courage. I'm thankful for anyone who has the courage to be themselves, because they too are in the public eye in their own worlds. For those parents whose kids are coming out, this world is far different than it was even five years ago when conducting a search for "transgender" support led to few places. I'm not purporting to say you have it easier, only that I'm thankful there are more faces to see that happiness for your child is possible, and to know that there are more resources available.
For my part, as I've not posted anything new regarding resources, I will do some searching and see if I can't update the links on this blog. If anyone cares to share what they know, please do. Either enter a comment or shoot me an email. My email is openarms2lgbt@gmail.com
Peace to you all.
Bruce Jenner's transition has been in the "gossip" papers for some time. While Jenner's look is certainly changing, far be it for me to assume that a transition it taking place, despite the appearance of it. Yet, when People magazine featured his story, I began to believe it might be true.
http://www.people.com/article/bruce-jenner-transition-whats-next
What I like about the article is that it attempts to educate in an appropriate fashion; the article explains what the term "transgender" means, to a fair enough degree. While most of us are sheep and tend to readily accept whatever famous people do as "normal,"in this instance, it is a good thing! Certainly, when Jenner's kin elect to broadcast the details of their personal lives on TV, they simultaneously become laughingstocks, and, to some, role models. I shudder to think that DJ would ever engage in some of the public ridiculousness that is being Kardashian, but…well, some people simply insist on engaging in idiocy. However, there are instances when publicity can help "normalize" others who are otherwise and inappropriately viewed as "abnormal," and are thus marginalized.
When celebrities use their status to inform, to educate, to foster equity and acceptance, not merely tolerance, they have used their privileged status well. Kudos to Brangelina for publicly sharing their support of their child who currently seems to be living as a young boy with XX chromosomes. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have shared her story of her battle with cancer in an effort to educate, but also to share their story of supporting John, their oldest biological child. I hesitate to refer to John's gender, while it may seem obvious, because until John's parents can share the gender identity John professes, far be it for me to suggest anything. Not my place. Nonetheless, the fact that John's birth certificate identified John as a natal female and Brangelina "permit" John to, one, be called John rather than the name they gave John, which was Shiloh, and further purchase clothing that John desires, rather than what society might dictate, all the while very much in the public eye, denotes their obvious love and acceptance of their child. Given societal propensities to accept as gospel that which comes from the rich, famous and beautiful, it seems the Pitt/Jolie family heads have made good use of their prominent positions, while I doubt that was their goal. Their goal was likely to simply be good parents to their kid.
http://www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/2014/12/20/brad-pitt-and-angelina-jolie-support-their-kid-wearing-suits
It's interesting that the two individuals I mention as being possibly transgender are of such disparate ages and both appear to be embracing their true selves, and in the public eye. I can only wonder at what it's like for Jenner as the "male" Jenner face and identity has been well-known in America for decades. So many of us thought that winning the decathlon would be Jenner's crowning victory, when actually, coming out may be. John's "male" name and style of dress seem to indicate John is already out of, and perhaps was never in, the closet. How very different experiences they are.
Truthfully, I'm thankful for those who share their stories in the public eye. It takes enormous courage. I'm thankful for anyone who has the courage to be themselves, because they too are in the public eye in their own worlds. For those parents whose kids are coming out, this world is far different than it was even five years ago when conducting a search for "transgender" support led to few places. I'm not purporting to say you have it easier, only that I'm thankful there are more faces to see that happiness for your child is possible, and to know that there are more resources available.
For my part, as I've not posted anything new regarding resources, I will do some searching and see if I can't update the links on this blog. If anyone cares to share what they know, please do. Either enter a comment or shoot me an email. My email is openarms2lgbt@gmail.com
Peace to you all.
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