Disc Jockey found the coolest "tool" to help DJ let us know how she's doing when she's having a hard day.
We've gone round and round on this issue because Miss Stiff Upper Lip refuses to let us know if she's ok when she's clearly acting not ok. We understand that everybody has "bad" or "off" days and all we ask is that she let us know if it's a regular "off" day, or if something has her so upset she feels the urge to purge (I do not like the fact that the phrase rhymes because that makes purging sound like a light hearted activity, and it's not) or if she feels like she can't guarantee her safety.
We've discussed using a chart with facial expressions drawn on it, encouraging her to paint scenes that can illustrate her feelings and she typically agrees to the plan and does not follow through.
Today, however, on our visit to see Disc Jockey, she tossed a bunch of what appeared to be various sized beanbags in DJ's lap. They were tiny stuffed pillows with a facial expression stitched on one side and a description stitched on the other. They were goofy, they were silly, they tickled DJ pink.
"So, which of these would describe how you're feeling today?" Disc Jockey asked.
DJ chose two:
Excited and Sleepy.
"I'm excited that the surgery is coming up in "x" days and I don't know why, but I'm sleepy," and she kind of giggled.
Way to hit the ball out of the park Disc Jockey!!
If you live near, or can access, a Fresh Foods Supermarket, Disc Jockey found the feelings pillows there. I think they would be universally appealing to small children, big kids and adults. I want to get Bulldog his own feelings pillows, in fact!
Otherwise, DJ is getting antsy. She actually started packing a little bit today. And she wrote half of her research paper. But right now, she's taking a bath, which is her other form of therapy. She just wants to get this show on the road!! She needs a warm cup of tea and a decent night's sleep to get her another day closer.
We've gone round and round on this issue because Miss Stiff Upper Lip refuses to let us know if she's ok when she's clearly acting not ok. We understand that everybody has "bad" or "off" days and all we ask is that she let us know if it's a regular "off" day, or if something has her so upset she feels the urge to purge (I do not like the fact that the phrase rhymes because that makes purging sound like a light hearted activity, and it's not) or if she feels like she can't guarantee her safety.
We've discussed using a chart with facial expressions drawn on it, encouraging her to paint scenes that can illustrate her feelings and she typically agrees to the plan and does not follow through.
Today, however, on our visit to see Disc Jockey, she tossed a bunch of what appeared to be various sized beanbags in DJ's lap. They were tiny stuffed pillows with a facial expression stitched on one side and a description stitched on the other. They were goofy, they were silly, they tickled DJ pink.
"So, which of these would describe how you're feeling today?" Disc Jockey asked.
DJ chose two:
Excited and Sleepy.
"I'm excited that the surgery is coming up in "x" days and I don't know why, but I'm sleepy," and she kind of giggled.
Way to hit the ball out of the park Disc Jockey!!
If you live near, or can access, a Fresh Foods Supermarket, Disc Jockey found the feelings pillows there. I think they would be universally appealing to small children, big kids and adults. I want to get Bulldog his own feelings pillows, in fact!
Otherwise, DJ is getting antsy. She actually started packing a little bit today. And she wrote half of her research paper. But right now, she's taking a bath, which is her other form of therapy. She just wants to get this show on the road!! She needs a warm cup of tea and a decent night's sleep to get her another day closer.
be careful when she's laying in bed the day after and you ask her how she's doing, those bags might not be as good as you think they are, especially when the "angry" bag, becomes a projectile ;-P
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